When going through a divorce, one of the most important and emotionally charged decisions you’ll make involves your children. It’s essential to understand that in any custody arrangement, parenting plan, or negotiation, the court—and ideally, both parents—will always prioritize the best interest of the child.

This means that decisions should not be based on what makes you happy, or what may satisfy the other parent, but on what truly supports the emotional, physical, and developmental well-being of your child. The best interest of the child in a divorce goes beyond convenience or personal preferences—it focuses on stability, safety, and long-term growth.

So from the very beginning of your divorce process, keep this question at the forefront: What is genuinely best for my child? Not just today, but in the months and years to come.

Your willingness to prioritize your child’s needs above your own can make a significant difference—not only in the outcome of your case but in your child’s future. Always center your actions, choices, and discussions around what serves your child’s best interest.